hi you bloggers..
wats up...as u can see this blog is about my family..ya its personal but i feel that i must let this out...i cant always hold it in you know..its like a secret and you are dying to tell someone..well when i was about primary six my dad betrayed my family..he went out with another woman..who i like older than him by a decade..(sry..very dramatic...)..he constantly met her and even invited me to see her..my dad told me to not let my mum know coz they are just friends but deep down i know there was something going on..so i told my mum..she was shock(obviously..) she confronted my dad but he just ignored her and kept repeating that they were only friends..for a second there i thought my mum would believe him and guess wat..she did...so since my mum believed him i did too...coz as the saying goes 'moms know EVERYTHING..'but the next year the woman kept calling the house and demanding him to meet her..he went ut always came back home late..he made excuses like there was alot of work..the bus came late...and all sorts of it...one day my mum couldnt take it and went to his working place...i went with her because it was my school holidays..when we reached there, he wasnt there..his working friend told us that he went out with the parking coupon lady..(wateva u call it)..my mum was angered..she was so depressed she wanted to commit succide...by over dosage of unneeded medicine..she would lock herself in te balcony and take the tablets in huge amounts and cry herself to sleep..i was terrified so was my big brother..after consoling herself in the balcony and after me and my brother slept she would crept to the kitchen to put back the medicine..the next day she would do the same but this time its was different coz i didnt want to lose a mum after i loss a dad so when she was walking towards the balcony with the bag of medicine in her hand, i quickly ran to her and snatched the bag of medicine..and kept it lock in a safe in my bedroom..i always kept the key wit me...until my dad came home, i told him about mother and do you wat he did?..he slapped her ..well in a good way that will bring back some sense to my mother but isnt that just quite too much..i mean like he is the one that brought that misery upon her...then Hari Raya came...this is the day that i will never forget..me, my mum and my brother was preparing to go to my mum's closest friend's house for visiting..my dad didin want to go..but its hari raya you see its not nice to ignore your closest friends..so the phone rang and its was that woman..my mum and brother was pissed..1:my mum was pissed off by that woman..2:my brother really wanted to go and he hated that woman...i as busy wearing my tradisional costume...den my mum and my brother started to bad mouth the lady..saying that she is WAY old for him..her children dont even listen to her...and well bad stuff...well its natural..if someone bad mouths ur girl you would go crazy yes??..well he did and he hit my mum and my brother..so to say he abused them...my mum was in front blocking my dad from reaching my brother...and i was behind my brother squating down, covering my head and just thinking wat will happen to my family next...den i found myself angry at them fighting coz we're a family and anything can be resolved without using violence...so i stood up and souted stop..all of them stopped and stared at me..my brother quickly called the police and the report was filed and my mum and dad had to go to court...i and my brother follwed my mum coz she wasnt in the wrong and my dad was the culprit...so i lost a dad...i looked u to him..he was my hero back then before her...
wats up...as u can see this blog is about my family..ya its personal but i feel that i must let this out...i cant always hold it in you know..its like a secret and you are dying to tell someone..well when i was about primary six my dad betrayed my family..he went out with another woman..who i like older than him by a decade..(sry..very dramatic...)..he constantly met her and even invited me to see her..my dad told me to not let my mum know coz they are just friends but deep down i know there was something going on..so i told my mum..she was shock(obviously..) she confronted my dad but he just ignored her and kept repeating that they were only friends..for a second there i thought my mum would believe him and guess wat..she did...so since my mum believed him i did too...coz as the saying goes 'moms know EVERYTHING..'but the next year the woman kept calling the house and demanding him to meet her..he went ut always came back home late..he made excuses like there was alot of work..the bus came late...and all sorts of it...one day my mum couldnt take it and went to his working place...i went with her because it was my school holidays..when we reached there, he wasnt there..his working friend told us that he went out with the parking coupon lady..(wateva u call it)..my mum was angered..she was so depressed she wanted to commit succide...by over dosage of unneeded medicine..she would lock herself in te balcony and take the tablets in huge amounts and cry herself to sleep..i was terrified so was my big brother..after consoling herself in the balcony and after me and my brother slept she would crept to the kitchen to put back the medicine..the next day she would do the same but this time its was different coz i didnt want to lose a mum after i loss a dad so when she was walking towards the balcony with the bag of medicine in her hand, i quickly ran to her and snatched the bag of medicine..and kept it lock in a safe in my bedroom..i always kept the key wit me...until my dad came home, i told him about mother and do you wat he did?..he slapped her ..well in a good way that will bring back some sense to my mother but isnt that just quite too much..i mean like he is the one that brought that misery upon her...then Hari Raya came...this is the day that i will never forget..me, my mum and my brother was preparing to go to my mum's closest friend's house for visiting..my dad didin want to go..but its hari raya you see its not nice to ignore your closest friends..so the phone rang and its was that woman..my mum and brother was pissed..1:my mum was pissed off by that woman..2:my brother really wanted to go and he hated that woman...i as busy wearing my tradisional costume...den my mum and my brother started to bad mouth the lady..saying that she is WAY old for him..her children dont even listen to her...and well bad stuff...well its natural..if someone bad mouths ur girl you would go crazy yes??..well he did and he hit my mum and my brother..so to say he abused them...my mum was in front blocking my dad from reaching my brother...and i was behind my brother squating down, covering my head and just thinking wat will happen to my family next...den i found myself angry at them fighting coz we're a family and anything can be resolved without using violence...so i stood up and souted stop..all of them stopped and stared at me..my brother quickly called the police and the report was filed and my mum and dad had to go to court...i and my brother follwed my mum coz she wasnt in the wrong and my dad was the culprit...so i lost a dad...i looked u to him..he was my hero back then before her...
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